Edison Chen Scandal

CNN manage to request Edison Chen for an interview..
And throughout the interview I realize...Is he a
A.Victim
B.Coward

12 months back, I would choose B. without any hesitation.
He`s an utter pyscho to me that loved to take naked girls` pictures after having a fun night with him.That`s ok. It`s just his private-weird habit.

But then, He crossed the line when the pictures leaked out and 800+ pictures were all published out on the Net.
Is it necessary to show his talent to the public in such a way Or it`s just a way of him trying to gain fame and attention?

12 months later,2day,I would humbly choose A.After much hesitation.
OK. He admit that He`s just one of the victim that deserve support as he said `` I`m a victim too you know..`` He`s like us that need love,support,compliment,hug.
He condemned those ill-computer freak that leaked out his photos
He claim that He deleted the photos himself.

Hmmm.. He`s in 1 of my``successful`` people list already since He able to climb up from failure and confront his audience with courage. He does excel in his career and claimed that his personalities had changed.(Does he mean he does`nt take naked pictures after sex?)

I choose A. as I do agree that Male, they tend to be passion and love experiencing wild activites that`s out of the box. So.. It`s just happen to be very unfortunate of him to not Delete his photos well and leaked out his `envied` public life to us. Haha

So i forgive him. How bout u guys? Still think that He`s such a lousy man?

Haha i`m back..

Its been like months and months i abandon this blog~~ to be exact 6 months...

Can 6 months bring a lot of changes?
Ya.. it does.. seems like a turning point in life..
Where u regret over something and when u think back.. It`s just life
Face it or u will be forever there.. No improvement only keep going downhill in your life...
Honestly.. People keep saying like `` I`m a failure... then start sobbing there.. thinking if any one would be confronting such case?``
i used to be one..
But then..
``Wat does it really take to be `successful`?
Does it mean when u earn your 1st million you are successful? Or does it mean you get a PHD then u will turn out to be successful?
Not necessary... But then every one define sucess in different way...
For me.. Success mean
You are a person that can accept failure.. And you are ready to face it with courage by not escaping and hide behind ur mom.. And climb up in life..
Honestly.. It seems to be easier said than done.. It does`nt matter whether it`s regarding wealth or social status..

You may see people that achieve education level till PHD but end up as one of the member of Bangkraptcy Association.. Don`t be bewildered by that... it`s common.

You may see people that achieve zero in education level.. But then end up nominated as one of the member of Youngest Entrepreneur.. it`s also common.

My point is.. Being successful mean you can accept failure in life and get back being more determined and confident..
U fail at certain aspect.. It only mean you lose at certain aspect... It make you a loser But not a failure.. However, if u r being pessimistic and addressed yourself as a failure freak... I`m sorry to say u would fail.. And don`t even realize that you yourself are failing..
Can u expect others not to looked down on you when you yourself looking down on you yourself?

My bottom line is..
Life is a long, enduring journey. Take failure as lesson and Take credit as an encouragement.
Only being optimistic and cheerful, then u will be ``successful``!
Bye!
(I`m trying to remind myself to always take failure as part of my life)